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Couple's Resolve

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Dedicated to helping

couples and individuals

overcome obstacles,

creating more fulfilling

partnerships.

PROVIDING SPECIALISED 1:1 & COUPLES COACHING 

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YOU ENVISIONED A LONG AND HAPPY MARRIAGE, BUT LIKE MANY COUPLES YOU'VE ENCOUNTERED CHALLENGES ALONG THE WAY...

I'VE BEEN WHERE YOU ARE RIGHT NOW, SO I KNOW IT'S A TOUGH PLACE TO BE. ADMITTING AND VOICING YOUR PROBLEMS IS THE FIRST STEP. BUT YOU ALSO NEED TO COME IN WITH AN OPEN MIND AND BE PREPARED FOR SOME HONEST AND REALISTIC BALANCED DISCUSSIONS.
 

Perhaps communication has become strained, trust has been compromised, or external stresses have taken a toll on your relationship?

These hurdles can leave you feeling disconnected and uncertain about the future. Recognising these struggles is a courageous first step.

Couples therapy offers a supportive environment to address these issues, rebuild your connection, and work towards the fulfilling partnership you both desire... let me tell you how I can help.

"JOHN WAS EXCELLENT, FROM INITIAL COMMS, CONSULTATION TO SESSION. HE REALLY HELPED US FEEL AT EASE TO EXPRESS ISSUES & CONCERNS. HELPED PAVE A ROUTE TO REBUILD GOING FORWARD, VERY SIMPLE BOOKING PROCESS & EXCELLENT VALUE. THANK YOU"

L&S, Brentford

WHAT DO YOU WANT?..

Enhanced Communication, where you can work on developing the ability to express thoughts and feelings openly, leading to a deeper understanding between partners. Or Rebuilding Trust, where we work on addressing past hurts to restore faith and confidence in each other. Gain renewed Intimacy where you can rekindle emotional and physical closeness, fostering a stronger bond. Build Conflict Resolution skills by learning effective strategies to navigate disagreements, reducing tension and fostering harmony. All leading to Shared Goals where you can align on future aspirations to ensure both of you are moving forward together.

AND HOW YOU CAN ACHIEVE IT?

With an Initial Assessment we'll begin by understanding your relationship's history, strengths, and challenges. We will look at Goal Setting, where together, we'll identify specific objectives tailored to your unique situation. By working on your Skill Development through guided sessions, you'll acquire tools to improve communication, trust, and intimacy. With Practice and Application between sessions, you'll have opportunities to apply new skills in real-life scenarios. Continuous Feedback with regular check-ins will help us assess progress and adjust strategies as needed. Then with Maintenance Planning, as you achieve your goals, we'll develop a plan to sustain and build upon your progress.

Your relationship is worth fighting for. Take the first step towards a stronger bond.

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LETS HAVE A QUICK CHAT?

​I LIKE TO BEGIN BY UNDERSTANDING YOUR RELATIONSHIPS HISTORY, STRENGTHS, AND CHALLENGES. TOGETHER WE'LL INDENTIFY SPECIFIC OBJECTIVES TAILORED TO YOUR UNIQUE SITUATION.

A PHONECALL OR VIA ZOOM THIS FREE CONSULTATION WILL LET US BOTH KNOW IF WE ARE GOOD TO WORK TOGETHER AND WILL LET ME KNOW THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO PUT THE WORK IN.

ARE YOU DETERMINED TO RESOLVE YOUR SITUATION, OR AT LEAST GIVE IT THE BEST CHANCE OF WORKING?

GET A CLEAR PICTURE OF HOW I COULD HELP, HOW I'LL BE HONEST WITH YOU AND MAKE SURE YOU PUT THE WORK IN, LIKE I HAVE WITH ALL MY CLIENTS. ALL I WILL SAY IS THE SOONER YOU
DECIDE TO TRY, THE MORE CHANCE YOU HAVE OF IT WORKING.

DO YOU WANT TO KNOW THE SECRET TO ACHIEVING ALL THAT YOU DREAM ABOUT?  DON'T QUIT. SEE, WHEN YOU KNOW WHAT THE DESTINATION IS, THERES A MILLION PATHS TO GET THERE - BUT THE GREATEST MOMENTS IN GROWTH AND SUCCESS HAPPEN RIGHT AFTER YOU FEEL LIKE QUITTING, BUT YOU DON'T. THATS THE SECRET, KEEP GOING. TO EMBRACE THE TOUGHEST OF TIMES AND GET THROUGH THEM TOGETHER COULD LEAD TO THE BEST OF TIMES.

Hi, I'm John

APART FROM BEING WITH MY KIDS, OR BEING ON THE GOLF COURSE - THE MAIN THING I LOVE IS HELPING INDIVIDUALS AND COUPLES REDISCOVER THEIR CONNECTION TO GO ON AND THRIVE IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP.

Before couples coaching, I spent over 20 years in the finance industry. While my career in finance was rewarding, my divorce gave me a profound calling to support individuals in their personal relationships. This led me to pursue training in couples therapy. At couples resolve I focus on fostering open communication and mutual respect, guiding couples to rediscover their connection.

During the fall out of my marriage I saw quite a few therapists who all seem to have the same way of handling breakups and even promote that a breakup could be a good thing. My mission is to provide a solution for every troubled relationship - no matter how bad the situation and that divorce should always try to be avoided. 


If you're ready to embark on a journey toward a more fulfilling relationship, feel free to contact me.

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READY TO HAVE A CHAT?

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